(Okay, I'm doing that for my work resolution, which is "keep my desk clean so everyone things I'm an organized genius" since I've gotten into the habit of keeping stacks of stuff on my desk so people don't think I'm bored. That's not the fun resolution. Moving on!)
I've got two major weaknesses that thwart traditional resolutions: I'm obsessive to the exclusion of everything else... but I lack staying power. (None of this should be a surprise to you.) Having to do something in moderation over a long period of time leads directly to me thinking I suck as a person. But I was thinking this week that maybe, if I frame my life right, instead of banging my head against these obstacles, they could suddenly be awesome traits I could use to my advantage!
You know it's legit when I make a graphic in PaintBrush.
This year, I'm planning to do 12 month-long challenges! (Or "themes," if "challenge" doesn't specifically apply.) November is clearly spoken for already, but I have a lot of ideas for the other 11 months!
Some of the ideas I have are extreme versions of things I would have done a traditional resolution for:
- I need to spend less money, so I'm wondering: if I plan well enough with enough lead time, could I spend an ENTIRE month without buying/spending anything at all? Or maybe just spend money one day per week?
- I want to learn to cook more (which factors into saving money above), so I would home-cook every meal for a month, making X number of new recipes!
- Theme month of gift-making (I'd really like to be one of those people with a gift closet for all those times Christmas just SHOWS UP on the calendar unannounced and you're wondering what the heck happened to October and November).
- Learning to sew my own clothes!
- Going new places X number of times.
- Running X miles over the course of the month.
Or general life-improve-y:
- Pretend (key word! nobody panic!) I'm going off my meds for a month and do all the alternative things that might allow me to eventually actually be meds-free.
- Plan and wear a different awesome outfit every day.
And the best part is: I don't have to declare it until the month is actually upon me, so if I am suddenly like OH MY GOD, BASKET-WEAVING IS LIFE, I can declare May the month of Basket-Weaving on May 1 and go to town.
I was so excited about this idea all last week that I couldn't decide what I wanted to do for January. There are just so many things! But then I remembered that I'm still really obsessed with Sims 3 (which I bought for myself on xmas as a digital download version, because I've been dying to play the copy I already have but haven't had a working optical drive for 1.5 years), and as much as it would be fun to make a resolution to succeed at a legacy challenge or something... look, there's just no way I can justify that as in any way improving my life. But I had to pick something that's Sims-friendly, so I chose this:
I have crocheted a few things in the past but haven't really gotten into it. There's something about it that just screams bad fashion choices in the 1970s.
And then I saw these Victorian/Steampunk Ruffled Spats and now ALL I EVER WANT TO DO is learn to crochet.
I'm starting out with dishcloths to learn stitch patterns, and to use up the random bits of kitchen cotton I purchased a few years ago the last time ALL I EVER WANTED TO DO was learn crochet.
I'm excited you guys! :)
I suppose the real resolution would be to actually blog about these things as I do them. Feel free to remind me! <3 <3 <3